Before hitting send or speaking, pause for one deep breath, then scan for a gentler, clearer phrasing. Swap “Hey guys” for “Hey everyone,” and replace insider slang with universal words. This one-breath ritual slows autopilot just enough to prevent unintentional exclusion while preserving authenticity, tone, and momentum in fast-moving conversations.
Commit to saying names correctly by asking once, repeating carefully, and writing yourself a phonetic reminder. A respectful introduction like, “I want to say your name accurately—could you share the pronunciation?” builds rapport fast. People remember who took the extra second, and your attentiveness ripples through meetings, email greetings, and cross-team collaborations.
When referring to someone whose pronouns you do not know, use they/them as your default. It’s simple, grammatically accepted, and respectful. This tiny habit prevents misgendering while you await confirmation. Keep practicing in short sentences, then use the person’s name to maintain clarity, reduce assumptions, and support smoother, kinder workplace interactions.
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